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Going steady: retro tips to dating (moving picture)

Going steady: retro tips to dating (moving picture)

by Prunella de Pedant In today's fast-paced world, dating can often feel like entering a human jungle. But have things changed so much since a time that so many of us look back at on so fondly and romantically? Take a little peek at this charming moving picture and see for yourself - even in a world that seems so civilised and "goody two-shoes",  parents encouraged young lovers not to go "steady" too soon. Going steady is a serious decision after all...enjoy!
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Dating etiquette: a few old-fashioned reminders

Dating etiquette: a few old-fashioned reminders

by Prunella de Pedant With Valentine's Day upon us again, let this sweet moving picture remind you of a few social graces: from asking your date to the dance to making formal introductions to making lively (and polite conversation) and knowing when the date should end...and always saying thank you. Our methods of courting may have changed over the years, but a good date's etiquette should always focus on the consideration of others. "By following these simple rules, all dating can be fun!" Just take a peek...
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Valentine's Day: traditional views from the Etiquette Guy

Valentine's Day: traditional views from the Etiquette Guy

By Jay Remer, the Etiquette Guy I remember when everyone exchanged Valentine's Day cards with one another in grade school. I hope that tradition still exists. It was good because we took some time to recognise the good in each person with
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Hello, 2012!

Hello, 2012!

Hello to a shiny new year! And hello to you, gentlereaders - cin cin to 2012! Let's make this a formidable one, abundant with politeness and innocent frolic.
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When did men stop trying to woo women?

When did men stop trying to woo women?

By Poorna Shetty As a little girl weaned on a diet of Cary Grant, Charlton Heston and a father who wrote poetry to win the heart of her mother, it wasn’t unreasonable to assume this is how the world worked. Men wooed in the manner of amorous birds, seeking to impress a member of the opposite sex with displays of attentiveness,
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First date etiquette: the Etiquette Guy's take

First date etiquette: the Etiquette Guy's take

by Jay Remer, the Etiquette Guy First dates are not always easy; we complicate things with anticipation, agendas, and intentions. I have recently been asked a number of questions about first dates. The most burning question  - not surprisingly  - is about finances. Who pays the tab on the first date? The most traditional dates usually involved a man asking a woman on a date. Traditionally,  the man pays -- always, with no exceptions. But in our modern day, the person who issues the invitation should also be the one to pay.
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Should a woman take a man's last name in marriage? (poll)

Should a woman take a man's last name in marriage? (poll)

by Dana Gornitzki The modern era can be most confusing. Not too long ago, when getting married a woman would not question dropping her maiden name to take on her husband's surname - it was just accepted. Now, in many parts of the world, it's a woman's prerogative and a matter discussed between the newlyweds.
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The smell of romance

The smell of romance

By Dana Gornitzki Sniff dating may just be the key to finding a heady romance (sorry, couldn't be helped).
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Don’t call us (we won't call you): job-hunting etiquette tips for employers

Don’t call us (we won't call you): job-hunting etiquette tips for employers

by Jean Bernard Talon Job-hunting can be a most gruelling if not taxing affair. If not waiting for the telephone to ring, should you call? Or when you are asked for a second meeting, and it’s a lunch -- is there a hidden meaning? Now, it’s been over a week and nothing from them so you call
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Text Flirting...or is that txt flrtng?

Text Flirting...or is that txt flrtng?

By Dana Gornitzki As if wooing a potential flame wasn't difficult enough, technology promises to add another layer of confusion. A suitor hiding behind the liquid crystal veil of the mobile screen could be interpreted as a laissez-faire, even facile, approach to courtship.
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